A Brazilian man who married 9 wives has created a “sex roster” for his wives but he now says it has caused problems.
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Arthur O Urso from Brazil went viral when he married 9 wives at once in a bid to “protest against monogamy”.
Mr Urso and his first wife Luana Kazaki solemnized their union with the 8 other women at a Catholic church in Sao paulo.
This joined the other 8 women to the union. However, polygamy is illegal in Brazil hence the marriages are not legally binding.
Arthur has revealed that he was struggling to satisfy the needs of his 9 wives.
That is when he created a sex roster as a solution. This was in an effort to satisfy each and every wife.
That effort also did not help him balance his services to his wives.
Arthur also found this to be very stressful and too formal.
“They all want to fulfil my sexuality at any cost, they are happy to make it their goal. Our sex life is really fun and pleasurable, and initially I tried to have sex by appointment.
“But following a timetable caused a lot of problems and sometimes I felt like I had to have sex because of the schedule, and not for pleasure.
“On other occasions I had sex with one wife while thinking about another.”
Those challenges forced Arthur to abandon the sex roster and now allows things to “flow naturally.”
“It doesn’t take long to get attention or affection when you have that many wives. It didn’t seem right so we got rid of it and now the sex flows naturally, it’s been great.
“It is very fun, pleasurable and unique to experience everything collectively, and they are all very different in bed.
“One of them, I won’t name her to keep her privacy, likes to be dominant and I like a woman who tells me what she wants.”
Arthur revealed that his wives do not mind how many times each of the wives get to make love to him. However he does admits that jealousy sometimes creep in.
“When I have given one of them an expensive gift and another a smaller or cheaper one, there has been jealousy among them.
“They all demand attention, affection and sex to be part of our everyday life, and I can’t do more for one than the other. I’m still learning about our relationship.”
So far, one wife made a decision to abandon to leave the marriage.
He previously stated that: “She wanted to have me all to herself. It didn’t make sense – we have to share. I was very sad about the separation and even more surprised by her excuse.
“She said that she was missing a monogamous relationship.
“My other wives thought her attitude was wrong and that she accepted the marriage for adventure and not for real feelings.
“I know I’ve lost a wife, but I’m not going to replace her at the moment.”
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