Humans in nature want to take control of their lives with no one having to push them around. To start the journey of controlling your life you must first decide on the people you would like to be surrounded by. Normally, the people around you dictate your failure or your success. In order to make sure that you make the best version of yourself, ensure that the people around you are of good motives and can lift you up or be of importance to you. This does not mean that you now chase those who do not add value to you because at some point you might be adding value to them. And here is a list of types of people you should run from.
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Users
This is the type of people who call you up only when in need. Others just enter your life before you even notice and manipulate you to cater for every one of their needs.
For you to identify a friend who uses you, observe the trend on how they have been behaving.
2. Complainers
This is a group of people that do not see any positive things in life. Every word they say is always about describing how something is bad. They always have reasons on why you should not do anything and do not encourage risk taking.
As you move on with this type of person, you also start only seeing the negative side of life. In general, life is not easy and it must always have ups and downs. You are therefore encouraged to have people who give you hope when you are down.
3. Gossipers
This is the type of people that spread every form of story they have heard to others and does not have a boundary of a secret and a mere story. Basically the stories narrated by gossipers have no origin or evidence to present their findings. They might even include some information so as to make the narration interesting.
They usually share the secrets you tell them not to share because they like to unveil the secrets in order to be regarded as knowing everything about someone. You should not expose your secrets to this type of person because you never know what the future holds.
4. Victims
This is the type of people that does not want to be accounted for doing something. They always make up stories to cover up the situation. This is the type of people that will drive you mad or interfere with your sanity.
They will always disagree with everything you say even if you are right.
5. Attention seekers
This is the type of people that will do anything to get attention no matter the cost. This includes wearing inappropriate clothing or changing their walking style.
6. Time wasters
For this group, time keeping is an alien language. They will walk up and down doing nothing. This type of person will waste your time and the time you will realize, you will be too old.
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